Contradict of life

Erm... There are alot of contradict incidents when we are growing up to face the challenges in life.
However, I feel uncomfortable with the point that to get happiness, we need to follow others. It is absolutely untrue. Happiness is gained from one's experience and one's attitude, personality on how one manages her/his life. It is not about following others.

Why does socrates said "how do we ought to live"?
What do you think? Is it we ought to live by just following what the leader says?
In my opinion, life is brief. It is not easy to gain happiness and sadness without life experiencing, do you agree with me?

Go pub is not a sign of happiness. Jump from 25th floor is not a sign of sadness. Why do we need to follow these facts to gain happiness or sadness? Why should we purposely die to gain the mercy of others? Isn't it is stupid and absolutely insane?

For me, happiness is come from the heart but not just faking it. By following others, definetely you wouldn get the true happiness. Is it called COPYCAT/COPYDOG! There is no point to be like that if you are not yourself.

If you intended to do one thing without thinking the consequences, then you are stupid!
If you are willing to do one task and do think of the consequences, then decided not to do it, then you are rational!
Life isn't unfair. There is no right or wrong.

Whenever you have made your decisions (either YES or NO) just go ahead, don't in the end say I feel guilty cos let others to worry, or think that you have made the wrong decision. This means you are not standing at your point and are not independent enough. Hence, I can say that you have no leadership.

These are just my point of views. I just want to state out the facts of the life and my own prinicples of life. Next episode : My principles of life...... (cont)