02 April 2009

Humiliation over Jokes

First of all, I would like to declare that my inkelish is very poor poor pooh and louya. There would be lots of grammar mistakes all around.



I am so damn mad and disappointed. What's on earth are people being so cunning and inconsiderable. I have been endure this matter for quite a long time, but this time, my patience has reached beyond my limit.

It is true that we can't judge a book by its cover. I am very disappointed over a junior of mine on what she has done over my sis. My first impressions on her was she was a decent and sweet girl, but everything was a lie once I knew the truth.

Let me just go straight into my main point. My sis has created a BLOG months ago and sis put a chatbox at her blog's layout. That was fine. But one day, there was someone which I believe was her who spam in her chatbox. I could accept that but the more she spam, the more foul letters and disgusting words appear under my sis' chatbox. It was so annoying and pissed off. My sis was so sad because she can't believe one of her friends would do such childish thinggy on her. But my sis tried to take things lightly. Sometimes, I knew that sis cried softly in a corner which made my heart felt very pain.

After the incident, the spammer self-claimed that people were starting to accuse her and write a post to defend herself. My sis felt weird as she did not even tell anyone except her best friend about this matter. Sis has no intention at all to exaggerate the matter but just to keep to herself. Sis even apologize to her for the matter as she did not want to make their friendships worst by having misunderstandings. However, things were gone hywire.

The spammer kept on blaming and insulting my sis whereas my sis has done nothing wrong. These were some examples that I have seen before.

"claiming that my sis was ugly"
"my sis was a bimbo"
"the pictures taken were blur"
"Your English was really lously"
"You are a plagiarizer."
"braces"

and the recent one was plagarize her blog header and blog posts.

OMG, what's on earth anyone would like to plagarize your stuffs? Did you purchase any copyrighted insurance or trademarks? There might be hundred of hundred people putting the similar style header but hey, do there really look the same like yours? Are your lovely personal picture in their blog header? I couldn't believe such a small matter would become a childish issue to be discussed.

She even claimed that what she post in her blog will be imitated by my sis on her own blog. Oh gosh, I really felt amuzed by that.

Do you know you have breached the tort of defamation? If you claim that you are innocent, then just prove it. But what I have seen so far from your blog posts and the newest video clip, you are indirectly defaming my sis. Speak up to me directly but not spamming around if I have misjudged you that you are really an innocent girl.

Some of my seniors and same badge band members were really shocked on what you have done so far. Why do you want to do such thing just for your own pleasure and happiness? Have you ever think of others' feelings before? I was really disappointed on your act.

Frankly speaking, what sort of faults have she done? Who is the culprit who start this sort of nonsense? My sis or you? Tell you, everything was started from the spammer who spam my sis' blog. Her kiasu-ness has become worsen day by day.

Even my sis did nothing wrong yet she went to APOLOGIZE to her for several times, she has never stop teasing and insulting my sis. I am really angry to know my sibling has been insulted by childish people who just want to make fun of her and draw attention from the public. It is such an uncivilized behaviour. Of course my sis wanted to defend herself, but the more she said, the more aggressive they are.

They even make a video just to dedicate to my sis. First of all, well done guys, it is a great video. However, humiliation is more than jokes is what I can say. You guys are really too over and do things for the sake of your own pleasure. There is no need to state who is the person they are directed to, as long as the statement could identify the plantiff, you guys have breached the law.
If you are the one who being insulted by people, what would you feel? Happy? Proud? Are your religion guides people towards humiliating and insulting others?

These are some of the quotes from her blog.

"hello plagiarizer. here's what i gotta say to you.

t('_')t
yes i'm doing that annoying smile to make you cry. now gimme gimme, MORE."


"and after i encountered the unfortunate plagiarizer i want to change womanizer into PLAGIARIZER PLAG- PLAGIARIZER YOU'RE A PLAGIARIZER ! what do you think? eh i tell you dont be surprised if she posts a video of her playing piano in her next post! manatau. The world is watching me ooh ooh ooh."


"Wow, it seem that you are really popular. That's great to hear, isn't it?

fine. fine. you can copy the way i write, but you cant own my way of thinking. don't you wish that you had your own thoughts to rant about? and i know you admire the level of creativity i have. my header pictures have always been a statement of creativity, no? if you look into the mirror and notice you're something you're not would you cry out and say yes im finally 70% more like Jacqueline except i dont have her sense of humour and her witty sarcasm.


i just smile at the joy that people plagiarize my works?"


"either way i'm still gonna beat you at everything, you sad little thought deprived whore. have your own creativity because the world is on my side."


"if you have been a reader of mine for quite some time now you'd probably know that i have a strong sense of confidence in my creativity (point prooven by the endless stream of photos i post of myself and the people i love) ok that's not my point for today story some other day. severe unfortunate minutes ago, i clicked into a female blogger's blog. the sight of the way of posting and writing stunted me to a certain degree that i morphed into a hysteric phase and lost my sense of rationality."


"sadly, this time around blogsphere has turned into somewhat of a competition, over advertisements, views and popularity. and more and more female bloggers are suddenly editing pictures like i do, writing pictured posts like i do, plagiarizing ideas on posts that i wrote etc etc. CANYOUHEARTHEHOLYCHOIR paise the good lord for giving us identical thoughts, equaled creativity levels, and same ideas on the right day on the exact second! i no longer see this as plagiarism, things are taking a second level to becoming very, very personal."

Oops, I did edit photos like yours since 2 years ago. Did I plagiarize your works as well?

Source : http://voices-jackie.blogspot.com/


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Just because my sis post about her bracelets, copycat again.
Just because my sis post about her hamsters, copycat again.
Just because my sis change her header, copycat again.
Just because my sis edit photos like her, copycat again.
Just because my sis think like her, copycat again.
Just because my sis as creative as her, copycat again.
Just because my sis camwhore, it looked exactly the same style like her, copycat again.

OMG, the more I think, the funnier I thought.

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Frankly, I was so mad about this incident. I couldn't think it would happen on my sis and still the humiliation process is on going. I am very worried of my sis because she is a girl who can't take too much of stress all in once. Hopefully she would be stronger and fully concentrate on her spm.

Daddy and mummy, sorry that sis has never told you about her problem because she does not want you to worry about her.

The purpose of me writing this post is not because to take revenge, to protest, to promote or whatsoever of evil thoughts you can think about. I would like to apologize if I have offended anyone. I dislike to have any arguments or fighting. What I want is just to leave my sis alone. I prefer to have the burden of insulting on me but not her.

Luke 6:27-36

[27] "But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, [28] bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. [29] If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. [30] Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. [31] Do to others as you would have them do to you.


Tell me again, who started all these childish thinggy?

God will know. Amithabha.

God, please don't harm anyone because they don't know.

28 comments:

I AM A BLOGGER said...

Oh, there are some annoying ppl out thre. Anyway, here is a little smtg to cheer u up/ (^^) hv a look at my blog...

chocoholic said...

Dear PEH HWA. what do you know when you say "the truth"? as far as i know you are far far off away doing tertiary studies, listening from one end doesn't make you know the truth. first of all i am not as free as you think to find fault with others for no reason. try asking you sister if she ever did plagiarized me. there is no need for a post with my site and badmouthing amongst your badge members because you, need to know the truth first. and since you're so self claimed matured why would you even act in such an uncivilized manner yourself? plus, your sister has never apologized to me. if that was what she told you i think the real person with issues is her. i believe that you have enough mentality (and maturity) to figure this out. i didn't do this out of self happiness and pleasure, i have a happy life thank you. and obviously you dont know what you're talking about when you say i need more public. hahaha! lastly i plead the others to see for yourself, that i am not "childish" and cartoon deprived to have done this out of pleasure. thank you. have a nice day.

-=kay=- said...

juz some analysis..

tht gal is lack of self-confidence n she is so threatened by ur sis.. juz becoz ur sis has some similar places wif her, she felt scared n she starts to spam ur sis's blog to bring her down..
n of coz thts wad a child will do..

a little advice to ur sis:
hey gal, be brave~ nobody will be able to harm u when u r brave! Do not scare to make urself shine~ Take care too~

Unknown said...

actually wat had happen?

Anonymous said...

i think i should comment as a unknown ppl..erm...wat i think is very blur...cos i am the outsider so i dun noe anything but i wish to comment on the video..the video is totally terrible..is tat funny ..lol..i dun think so..i think their parents will very shameful when they saw their lovely children doing such childish and bull shit thing... sorry for speaking foul language .jus i cant stop myself to did this.. and if..
the ppl who did this saw this msg ,
i wanna ask u all how old u all o..lol i forgot u all jus 17 or may be 18.. still a unmature kids... so what a kid should do...go back study la.. wtf.. childish .. the thing u did will not be funny to anyone if they got brain... may b u all will say that.. it jus a april fool... then if i play such thing which exactly the same to u , wat u will feel? funny ? lol.. may be.. may be u think is ok la...nothing only..April fool ma.. if your thinking like this..lol congratulation.. u r a childish kids.. soli peh wah ..soli for writing such thing in ur blog .. if u dun like it jus delete it.. i jus cant stand for those who think they are all right's people showing their bull shit work off.

Wey Yew said...

Sometimes, human just behave according to their own ego which we r not able to do anything about it....
as you can see, they did it for the purpose of their own excitement, and at the same time, they want to see ur sis reactions. When ur sis react the way they want her to, this is call mission completed....

But then, take a different approach, if ur sis can be a bit careless, maybe once they r bored with everything, they will eventually stop.

Take me for example...Everyone talk bout me n XXXX. At first, i try to make everything clear but then, the more i talk, the more everyone talk bout me....

After a while, i did try to ignore everything. Yeah....Surprisingly all the rumors stop and i basically need not do anything at all....

I do agree that, it's too much for ur sis. and maybe a serious case. But then, We can't do anything bout it....

Just one thing, right at this moment, ur sis need ur support badly, encourage her to face the fact....

One more thing. in this incident, it gave ur sis a very good training ground to evaluate someone. Even best friend can betray us sometimes, so she must be more careful in meeting new friends.

Looking at the bad side of something just make ur life harder n miserable....Try to take a step by evaluating what we get from a bad incident. It's okay to be sad. But then, after awhile, we must put it aside and give ourselves the chances to meet someone better...

This new world is meant for those who have strong will and courage to move forward....Looks for the good in a bad things...U'll found that life is much more interesting....

For PH's sis, just be strong and move forward. She dun appreciate u as a friend, show her that there r lots more ppl wishing to be ur friends....^^
Cheer up!!!

For PH, haha, dun worry too much, one day, things will just fix up on it's own....U r a great sis though...

And For the "she", i won't talk much, just leave this sentence, "what goes around, comes around".
Belief that one day, someone will treat u the same way u treat others. ^^ Smile n laugh while u can before u cry and not able to stand again.^^

Anonymous said...

it is always a very wrong act to humiliate people eventhough tat person is ur enemy,which is a very childish and uncivilised behaviour.Please always think of the consequence before doing anything..
I don't know the whole story behind and i m not interested at all to noe,and here i m not pointing any blame at any person..
Hope it would be a happy ending.

chocoholic said...

wow look at the very civilized people talking in broken sentences and discriminating others. mr no balls to identify himself, since you are so blur to the situation why dont you go back and study because you are too puny to judge on anything here. hmm here's a tip, take sentence construction classes so MAybe you'd be able to convey a message correctly. you are not only brainless, but also dickless.

J said...

Well, well, well. A pretty heated debate over here.

To a certain extent, I concur with what chocoholic mentioned. We can't judge an issue without having a comprehensive understanding.

Therefore, I will post my comment based on the video itself, as a concerned passer-by.

Is this video a joke?
NO. It's not a joke, at least that's from my point of view. This is a prank done by a bunch of young kids who have no idea on how to spend their own leisure time.
And, it's certainly morally wrong to apologize right after u have harmed other people. (at least not within 5 mins-time frame of the video)
I can give a vivid example on this.
"Hey, nincompoop, are you trying hard to get sympathy from others by telling your sad stories?"
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"Hey, sorry if I hurt you. I hope I didnt. Just for fun. Happy April Fool!"
A true hypocrite. Don't ever try to twist the truth. People can see it. Perhaps you are right in the incident. But in this video, there's no way u can say it right.

Secondly, this video reflects the maturity and ethics of the bunch of girls at the age of 17. At this age, you should spend your time wisely by participating in various activities and casting your people network wide. Not by ruining it. Mix with more people and you will learn the way to interact. Maybe you are not realising it, but this piece of video is actually harming the victim whom you are trying so hard to portray and yet to hide at the same time. This video reminds me of the ponteng king video on YouTube years ago. So naively recorded.

Last piece of advice from an old Chan Wa dinosaur. I doubt that my words would be taken seriously. But anyway, I have to complete my lines. If you girls are interested in film-making, try to do it in a meaningful way. (Slumdog Millionaire is one of the nice ones)
If you girls are interested in newscasting, raise your guts and stand on the stage for public speaking or debate. Don't hide your talents by backstabbing.
If you girls are keen on studying, well, congratulations. However, study smart. (Don't think by mumbling the word 'study' for thousands time can give u an A in exam.)

Before I sign off, do remember that being good in certain language is a blessing. Do use it to help others.

p/s: Any replies are welcomed. But please be constructive. Thanks in advance.

Anonymous said...

hey anonymous, (can also be called coward for not having the courage to leave his/her name~) for yr information, my mom know's about the video~ not only that, she fully supported me by watching it for about 3 to 4 times~ so happy to have such a supporting mom~^^ and if i were u, i'll choose to remain silent coz u're nothing but an outsider~ peace out^^ Ma$teR~

Anonymous said...

oh and by the way miss peh hwa, didn't she tell u that she's a big girl now?? if so, she'll definitely find her way out of this matter~ so y don't u thrust her, giv her some space and stop protecting her?? she seriously can't grow up with u over protecting her all the time~ she got to learn how to handle her issues by herself~ i know u love yr sister, but sometimes, u just can't interfere too much in her business~ take this incident for example, u shouldn't care coz firstly, u don't know the truth~ and secondly, u're actually making this whole situation worst~
Ma$teR~

Anonymous said...

Peh Ying should stop lying and get a life. =)

Anonymous said...

oopsy~ i spelled trust into thrust~ haha~ my bad^^
Ma$teR~

-=kay=- said...

seriously, i cant believ my eyes at all.. in this wad young gals are doing nowadays?
by bullying frens n making fun of them??

after a run through of all de comments, i hav a strong feeling tht tht gal is doing exactly what she did to peh ying to peh hwa now.. by pointing out ppl's mistake.. weaknesses.. givin bad label..

hey gal, learn how to respect others.. u dun hav a cute face, u dun hav good english command, wad makes u think tht u hav de qualification in commenting bout others? dun be naive, dun act childish.. dis world is nt as simple as u think!

toy said...

i totally agree with master..we know that u love her n tried to help her by posting this but actually it makes the situation worse..besides,i dun get the whole childish-matured thing..how do u guys define childish n matured?how much do u know about these bunch of 17-year-old young kids tat makes u have the right to say tat these young gals are totally childish?i dun get it..maybe i'll only become matured when i become a grandma ^^ peace~ Y

chocoholic said...

hello kay. since when did i give the impression of expecting the world to be simple and naive, i might know more than you. take those stamps off your bug eyes and look before speaking. i didnt discriminate peh hwa, maybe you need a dictionary to tell you that. clumsy falling in love go the hell away and get married. this isn't your place to act all matured and doctor thelma.

Anonymous said...

to miss/mr "master",
u noe when i saw ur post , u make me laugh..wat i think is no wonder u will be like tat ..because ur mum also like tat..haha...very funny .. somemore.. u r right . im the outsider.. but do u noe.. outsider is more clear and easy to see out who is being the idiot there... haha.. and one more...i choose to not leave my name is becos i dun wan to make the thing so complicated ..y ? becos i noe u all..so stop doing this bull shit and making urself more disgusting action..

Anonymous said...

to miss jac/ not is bull shit or shan pa gang..

thx for ur advise..cos i totally agree that my english is worst..but english better got wat used? jus use it to hurt people? lol..then i better dun learn the english well.. lol..do u noe y i call u shan pa gang...lol ...this not called by me only.. this word is from my friend who study same badge wit u .. cant imagine ur badge friend also call u all like this...omg...

-=kay=- said...

i didnt discriminate peh hwa, maybe you need a dictionary to tell you that <-- cant stop laughing becoz of dis..

hey chick, how could a dictionary help me to sue u against discrimination? plz laa.. de thing i'll need would probably be law books.. study more before u said sumthing k..

by de way, i din mention bout 'discrimination' at all.. hmm.. dun act smart in front of me.. in de eye of law, u r still a minor.. bt of coz, being a minor, ur standard of care would be lower.. therefore, its meaningless to explain anything to u here..
bt i do welcome u to voice ur comments on others when u become a major..

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peh hwa, i do jealous bout ur sis.. nth wrong to protect ur sis.. who else would do tht if u r not here to support right?
mayb i dun hav a younger sis, thts y i pinjam urs n protect a bit~~
hehehehe..
so peh ying ar, thr are lots n lots of people wish to protect u from harm.. =]
so we'll stand strong k?!

Anonymous said...

after reading her next post..it is indeed more funny that i realise people who merely know about something could act like she knows everything...
haha...
dictionary to justify discrimination??????hahahhahahahaaha

Anonymous said...

claimed from "civilised people" : "lastly i plead the others to see for yourself, that i am not "childish" and cartoon deprived to have done this out of pleasure."

what do you think when one is so free that she records down every single action of her..pretending like a profesional news reader, doing some weird and disgusting body languages...
if we did not call this childish, what should we call this then??
TOo matured?! Too civilised?!!!!!!!

I believe for most people, her action of recording all her preculiar action of "profesionality" but indeed, not at all is a waste of time, childish, useless, waste of electricity, waste of energy, and...
and...
i would like to advice people around that..
if u were not record yrself down and post it to the public, do make up and dress up yrself properly before you do so...

Anonymous said...

outsider is more clear and easy to see out who is being the idiot there? yea right~ u don't know the truth and yet u're acting like u know everything, acting like u know us, and acting mature all the time~ and i don't think u have the right to talk about my mom too~ it really pisses me off and it's really rude to touch on sensitive issues~ ><" and just admit that u're a coward for not revealing yr name~ oh yar, in case u haven't noticed, things already got complicated since u interfered~ actually,it was since miss peh hwa interfered~ peace out~
Ma$teR~~~

Anonymous said...

ok ok, this will never come to an end if the mature side and the so called 'childish' side keeps defending themselves~ so, to the mature side : i guess u guys are taking a joke too seriously~ try taking Joker's advice-- y so serious? ^^ and u guys are obviously too mature to judge this whole situation~ and since u all are so mature, y waste time on this 'childish' incident??
and to the so called 'childish' side,which i'm a part off : y are we here anyway? i mean, it's an outsider's blog~ we don't need to prove anything to anyone here~ and things are starting to get a little off topic too~ no? so, i don't know about u guys, but i don wanna waste my time here anymore~ Peace out~ Ma$teR~~~

J said...

Hey people, try to be calm and get away from the discussion for a day or two before posting the next comment.

We should be discussing on the justification of posting the video, and the effect it brings to the victim behind the play.

Don't deviate your aim people, and get carried away by the comments posted by the culprits.

If not, you will find yourself fall into a trap where you are attacking the culprits, rather than justifying the issue.

So, be careful people.

chocoholic said...

read my lips when i say wow its like so heartbreaking to know that i am shan pa gang in the eyes of those who claim i'm friends with them! HAHAHA! what kinda barbecued shit is this. whats next? should i sit and act emo or cry to my brother like someone so that people would finally notice my existence. lol.

i am truly glad. we know how to have fun and take things lightly, unlike you people who claim to be oh so clever and matured. so matured but only 3 years elder.and its only balance if you have haters and lovers. why how very dull life is for you.

and to kay, hello there is there a problem with you in understanding what i typed? obviously there is. read my comment well again then only reply. dont end up misinterpreting and making a bigger fool outta yourself. hahaha. ah how intelligent of her! one bonus star*

chocoholic said...

and another thing, mindfucking isn't good enough to bring us down. lol shan pa gang. try again. this time, think harder.

Anonymous said...

hey gals........do you think tat still hav a lot of time to study???spm is coming soon...so stop do nonsense thgs again...just focus on study!!!n u all have to learn to appreciate friendship....b mature ba........i think all of you will regret what had you did...anf oso regret being so childish...pei ying...b tough just like ur sis....just ignore them like me and your sis did before....jia you o.....

sergeant_Roy said...

To Miss Peh Hwa
It is hilarious to observe a fine talented blogger ,while accusing other for plagiarizing her "unique and creative work", is actually committing something quite similiar of what she had aggresively incriminating the other.

I spare some times glanced through her blog and i found something interesting.

The title, presummed by her as original creation of her or perhaps not ,was actually something we can get in

http://www.faqs.org/abstracts/Retail-industry/There-will-always-be-life-under-the-stars-The-return-of-the-rap-pack.html

Secondly, the words in the header.First sight, I though that it was a beautiful words and impressed with the blogger's ability for such an composition. Until i viewed this page

http://www.takkle.com/people/51562/-/profile (look at her faivourite quote downwards left, that says "Some Of the Best Things in Life Are left unseen.")

Then, the astonishing header picture which demonstrates a favourite pet.
I think Ms Julia Chris will be sad knowing that her idea of putting a favourite pet of hers on the header of her blog, was plagiarized.

http://mydogfinn.blogspot.com/

I acknowledge from her postings that she blogged a lot about her pets.
this will upset these bunch of people

http://mydog-parlance.blogspot.com/search?updated-max=2009-03-30T03%3A31%3A00%2B11%3A00&max-results=7

http://oldtommyboy.blogspot.com/

http://sandydog.blogspot.com/

because their idea of posting something about their pet was plagiarized.

(furthermore ,On one of her posting, she doesnt know that why "other female blogger" coincidently possesed with the idea of getting a dog .I think she thought that she's the only person in the world that owns dogs and the only person that know how to teach them "creatively")

Then, other postings were merely about opinions,emotional feelings, and personal life style.

God blessed her with fantastic
and wonderful english profficiency. However, it's doubtful on her knowledge on the word "plagiarize" itslef.

She claims that someone had plagiarized her work . lets assume that the "someone" is someone that she is implying and inuendoing by other post.

I see no plagiarism on any of her post by that "someone" .

if she claims that the writting style "the way she write" was plagiarised, it is again amused me because i never though that writting stlye can be plagiarised

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plagiarism

http://www.plagiarism.org/learning_center/what_is_plagiarism.html

http://www.indiana.edu/~wts/pamphlets/plagiarism.shtml

http://www.askoxford.com/concise_oed/plagiarize?view=uk

If it's"her idea"that she claimed plagiarized, then can we draw an inferrence that her idea ,for example, posting about own pets was actually someone elses idea
whose thier blog was posted way earlier than her's?

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My personal comment is
No one had plagiarized anyone.
Good luck to everyone

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